You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
IYANLA VANZANTDon’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in grander ways.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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Sometimes you have to lose everything in order to gain yourself.
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You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.
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Life doesn’t actually knock you down. It does, however, provide you with many opportunities to evaluate your standing in life: what you stand on, what you stand for, how you stand within yourself and for yourself.
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Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.
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Listen for the instruction, instead of begging for the direction.
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Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
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If you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
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Criticism does not make you smarter or better than the one you are criticizing. In fact, the stuff you are critical of in others is the same stuff you don’t like about yourself.
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If you really want to live your life to the fullest and realize your greatest potential, you must be willing to run the risk of making some people mad. People may not like how you do it, but these people are not living your life. You are!
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When the time comes for you to make a change or to grow, the universe will make you so uncomfortable you will eventually have no choice.
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Everything we experience-no matter how unpleasant-comes into our lives to teach us something.
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I am the one I have been looking for.
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You have a right to your thoughts and feelings. Your feelings are always valid.
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Loving yourself has nothing to do with being selfish, self-centered or self-engrossed. It means that you accept yourself for what you are. Loving yourself means that you accept responsibility for your own development, growth and happiness.
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Life will let you get away with something for a while, but sooner or later, you will pay the price. Everything you do in life causes the effects that you experience. When you get the bill, be prepared to pay.
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