Many of us have a need to be right. We then set out to make ourselves right by making someone else wrong. We must get right with ourselves. Once we do, we will have so much to do, we will not have time to keep track of who is wrong.
IYANLA VANZANTEvery day is your day if you claim it. If you wait for somebody else to make it for you, you’re going to be disappointed.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
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Give yourself permission to smile a lot today. In fact, why not make it a habit!
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Life doesn’t actually knock you down. It does, however, provide you with many opportunities to evaluate your standing in life: what you stand on, what you stand for, how you stand within yourself and for yourself.
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With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect.
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Listen for the instruction, instead of begging for the direction.
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It takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it, trying to make it better. Letting go doesn’t mean ignoring a situation. Letting go means accepting what is, exactly as it is, without fear, resistance, or a struggle for control.
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You have a right to your thoughts and feelings. Your feelings are always valid.
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When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
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Fear wears so many clever disguises it is virtually impossible to always recognize it. Fear disguises itself as the need to be somewhere else, doing something else, not knowing how to do something or not needing to do something.
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Instead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.
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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
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You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.
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When was the last time you thanked you for always being there for you? Self appreciation soothes an aching soul.
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Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
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Have the courage to be exactly who you are without apology. Admit your mistakes without beating yourself up. Release all shame! Release all guilt! You cannot live if you are hiding behind what was. Focus on what is, right now, and that is you!
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