When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
IRVIN D. YALOMDoes a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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