The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
IRVIN D. YALOMLook out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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