When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
IRVIN D. YALOMLook out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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