There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
IRVIN D. YALOMWhen that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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