If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
IRVIN D. YALOMTo the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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