Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
IRVIN D. YALOMSpecialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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