I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
IRVIN D. YALOMSpecialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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