If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
IRVIN D. YALOMThough the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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