I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
IRVIN D. YALOMThough the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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