None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
IRVIN D. YALOMThough the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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