To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
IRIS MURDOCHThe talk of lovers who have just declared their love is one of life’s most sweet delights. Each vies with the other in humility, in amazement at being so valued. The past is searched for the first signs and each one is in haste to declare all that he is so that no part of his being escapes the hallowing touch.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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Every book is the wreck of a perfect idea.
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I just enjoy translating, it’s like opening one’s mouth and hearing someone else’s voice emerge.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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In philosophy if you aren’t moving at a snail’s pace you aren’t moving at all.
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Love is the Extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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People have obsessions and fears and passions which they don’t admit to. I think every character is interesting and has extremes. It’s the novelist privilege to see how odd everyone is.
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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I felt a deep grief that crouched and stayed still as if it was afraid to move.
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Anything that consoles is fake.
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