I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
IRIS MURDOCHOne should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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We need a moral philosophy which can speak significantly of Freud and Marx and out of which aesthetic and political views can be generated. We need a moral philosophy in which the concept of love, so rarely mentioned now, can once again be made central.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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An experience is richest not talked of.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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People have obsessions and fears and passions which they don’t admit to. I think every character is interesting and has extremes. It’s the novelist privilege to see how odd everyone is.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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Her eyes, which refused to meet mine, had the defensive coldness of those who are determined to lose hope.
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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