Of course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
IRIS MURDOCHOne should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out.
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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We are all prisoner, but the name of our cure is not freedom.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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But one must do something about the past. It doesn’t just cease to be. It goes on existing and affecting the present, and in new and different ways, as if in some other dimension it too were growing.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.
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Our actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
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