Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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Anand Thakur
Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
HENRY CLOUD
Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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Things don’t change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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