You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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Anand Thakur
You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
HENRY CLOUDTo get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
HENRY CLOUDMarriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
HENRY CLOUDA leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
HENRY CLOUDSuccessful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
HENRY CLOUDConfronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
HENRY CLOUDConsequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
HENRY CLOUDDating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
HENRY CLOUDWhen leaders lead in ways that people’s brains can follow, good results follow as well.
HENRY CLOUDThings don’t change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
HENRY CLOUDWe have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
HENRY CLOUDIn a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
HENRY CLOUDCouples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
HENRY CLOUDEndings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
HENRY CLOUDThe natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
HENRY CLOUDYou aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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