Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Everything has seasons, and we have to be able to recognize when something’s time has passed and be able to move into the next season. Everything that is alive requires pruning as well, which is a great metaphor for endings.
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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Things don’t change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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When leaders lead in ways that people’s brains can follow, good results follow as well.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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