The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
HENRY CLOUDDating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succeed.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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