If, every day, I dare to remember that I am here on loan, that this house, this hillside, these minutes are all leased to me, not given, I will never despair.
ERICA JONGAnd the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Home is where your books are.
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Before things are written down they don’t exist in quite the same way. The act of fixing them in words gives them a kind of currency that can be traded.
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Keeping a journal implies hope.
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Loving someone is a loss of freedom – but one doesn’t think of it as loss because one gains so much else.
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We are so scared of being judged that we look for every excuse to procrastinate.
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The parity of women’s health. It’s very depressing to think that you win these rights, but then you have to win them again, and again, and again, and fight the same battles over and over.
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I have accepted fear as a part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.
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Every time I catch myself saying, “Oh no, you shouldn’t try that,” I think, “Yes, I should.”
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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Is a currency worth anything if no one wants it? We used to buy shoes in Italy. Remember?
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There is a rhythm to the ending of a marriage just like the rhythm of a courtship, only backward.
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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There is no loneliness like the loneliness of a dead marriage.
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I stand in the mist and cry, thinking of myself standing in the mist and crying, and wondering if I will ever be able to use this experience in a book.
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it.
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Friends love misery… our misery is what endears us to our friends.
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If you imagine the world listening, you’ll never write a line. That’s why privacy is so important. You should write first drafts as if they will never be shown to anyone.
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Our empathy for others as an excuse to underpay us.
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A poem (surely someone has said this before) is a one-night stand, a short story a love affair, and a novel a marriage.
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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It takes courage to lead a life. Any life.
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Love is love, but marriage is an investment.
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Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads.
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Silence is the bluntest of blunt instruments.
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I hope we don’t have to keep going back over the same territory and winning the same rights over and over again. The battle for birth control. The battle for abortion.
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What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not by exhortation.
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