I don’t think you could ever know just how truly special you are that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star
ERICA JONGThough my friends envied me because I always seemed so cheerful and confident, I was secretly terrified of practically everything.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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Compose with utter freedom and edit with utter discipline.
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it.
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I want you. I want you. I want you. Anything to avoid saying: I love you.
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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I myself hate that old Hemingwayesque paradigm of the writer as prizefighter and I have tried hard to create an alternate one for myself.
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The parity of women’s health. It’s very depressing to think that you win these rights, but then you have to win them again, and again, and again, and fight the same battles over and over.
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Always do the things you fear the most. Courage is an acquired taste, like caviar.
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Because I loved myself, I was loved.
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And what if I don’t want forgiveness?
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Women are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
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Images are … a kind of emotional shorthand.
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Souls have neither Sex nor Colour.
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Do all women have to keep silent for men to speak? Do all women have to be legless for men to walk?
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Love is love, but marriage is an investment.
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Keeping a journal implies hope.
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Freedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
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Memory is the most transient of all possessions. And when it goes, it leaves as few traces as stars that have disappeared.
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Of all the foolish Fears of Humankind, Fear of the Future is by far the most foolish.
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You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy.
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The trick is not how much pain you feel–but how much joy you feel. Any idiot can feel pain.
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I believe that women should live for love, for motherhood and for intellect, and I believe we shouldn’t have to choose. And I believe that’s always been difficult for women, to express themselves intellectually, maternally, and passionately.
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Shakespeare wrote without knowing he would become Shakespeare
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I am old enough to know that laughter, not anger, is the true revelation.
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Friends love misery… our misery is what endears us to our friends.
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Our empathy for others as an excuse to underpay us.
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