Really true intimacy is rare and it depends on other things besides sex.
ERICA JONGOften I find that poems predict what I’m going to do later in my own writing, and often I find that poems predict my life. So I think poetry is the most intense expression of feeling that we have.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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I do believe that in every age there are people whose consciousness transcends their own time and that these people, whether fictional or historical, are those with whom we most closely identify and those about whom we most enjoy reading.
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The best slave does not need to be beaten. She beats herself.
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Is a currency worth anything if no one wants it? We used to buy shoes in Italy. Remember?
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Freedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
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Gossip is the opiate of the oppressed.
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I myself hate that old Hemingwayesque paradigm of the writer as prizefighter and I have tried hard to create an alternate one for myself.
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Often I find that poems predict what I’m going to do later in my own writing, and often I find that poems predict my life. So I think poetry is the most intense expression of feeling that we have.
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I believe that women should live for love, for motherhood and for intellect, and I believe we shouldn’t have to choose. And I believe that’s always been difficult for women, to express themselves intellectually, maternally, and passionately.
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Fear is a sign-usually a sign that I’m doing something right.
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not by exhortation.
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It is the city of mirrors, the city of mirages, at once solid and liquid, at once air and stone.
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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.
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Motherhood cannot finally be delegated.
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Shakespeare wrote without knowing he would become Shakespeare
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The camera creates a magical transformation. It’s not enough to exist; we must chronicle that existence. …
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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Before things are written down they don’t exist in quite the same way. The act of fixing them in words gives them a kind of currency that can be traded.
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There is no loneliness like the loneliness of a dead marriage.
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Every time we hit an air pocket and the plane dropped about five hundred feet (leaving my stomach in my mouth)
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The dilemma is that if one does not risk anything one risks even more.
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A book burrows into your life in a very profound way because the experience of reading is not passive.
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My mother wanted me to be her wings, to fly as she never quite had the courage to do. I love her for that. I love the fact that she wanted to give birth to her own wings.
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Silence is the bluntest of blunt instruments.
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Always do the things you fear the most. Courage is an acquired taste, like caviar.
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In loving life you love what can’t survive.
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