I myself hate that old Hemingwayesque paradigm of the writer as prizefighter and I have tried hard to create an alternate one for myself.
ERICA JONGIf we can be sufficient unto ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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A book is a box brimming with incendiary material. The reader strikes the match.
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People are interested in their own sexuality and they’ve always reflected it in their art. End of story.
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I don’t think that sex necessarily produces intimacy.
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Photographs are the most curious indicators of reality.
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No one ever found wisdom without also being a fool. Writers, alas, have to be fools in public, while the rest of the human race can cover its tracks.
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You can’t be creative and still be a good girl.
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I have accepted fear as a part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.
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It is the nature of those books we call classics to wait patiently on the shelf for us to grow into them.
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Souls have neither Sex nor Colour.
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It’s easier to write about pain than about joy. Joy is wordless.
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It takes courage to lead a life. Any life.
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Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads.
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Love is love, but marriage is an investment.
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The parity of women’s health. It’s very depressing to think that you win these rights, but then you have to win them again, and again, and again, and fight the same battles over and over.
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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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Our empathy for others as an excuse to underpay us.
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What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not exhortation.
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If you don’t have time to do it right you must have time to do it right you must have time to do it over. If you don’t know where you are going, how do you know when you get there? If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
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What was the point of spending your life with someone you were always looking for ways to decieve?
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There is a rhythm to the ending of a marriage just like the rhythm of a courtship, only backward.
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The sexuality doesn’t end. It really doesn’t. You’re sexual your whole life, if you’re a sexual person.
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My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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