What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not exhortation.
ERICA JONGMany people today believe that cynicism requires courage. Actually, cynicism is the height of cowardice. It is innocence and open-heartednes s that requires the true courage — however often we are hurt as a result of it.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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The trick is not how much pain you feel – but how much joy you feel
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You can’t be creative and still be a good girl.
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In loving life you love what can’t survive.
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The parity of women’s health. It’s very depressing to think that you win these rights, but then you have to win them again, and again, and again, and fight the same battles over and over.
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Is perception equivalent to existence?
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The future is merely a shadow which blocks out the joys of the present and emphasizes the miseries of the past.
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And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
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Don’t ye know that ev’ry Soul on Earth feels itself to be an Orphan?
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They keep saying the right person will come along. I think mine got hit by a truck.
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My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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It is the nature of those books we call classics to wait patiently on the shelf for us to grow into them.
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You cannot divide creative juices from human juices. And as long as juicy women are equated with bad women, we will err on the side of being bad.
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I hope we don’t have to keep going back over the same territory and winning the same rights over and over again. The battle for birth control. The battle for abortion.
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Betrayal betrays the betrayer.
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Friends love misery… our misery is what endears us to our friends.
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My mother wanted me to be her wings, to fly as she never quite had the courage to do. I love her for that. I love the fact that she wanted to give birth to her own wings.
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Conflict is the soul of literature.
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The sexuality doesn’t end. It really doesn’t. You’re sexual your whole life, if you’re a sexual person.
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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.
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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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There’s always a backlash against progressive ideas.
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Life has no plot. It is by far more interesting than anything you can say about it.
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Do all women have to keep silent for men to speak? Do all women have to be legless for men to walk?
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Every time I catch myself saying, “Oh no, you shouldn’t try that,” I think, “Yes, I should.”
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Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.
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