You might believe that it’s only for their own good, but how does it feel when you try to manipulate the people you love? Are you teaching them that your love is conditional? Maybe through inquiry we can find another way.
BYRON KATIEHow do I know it was meant to happen this way? Because it did.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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That’s where the fear comes from-from your uninvestigated thoughts.
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If you don’t like your world, question your thoughts about it.
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Realizing that people should lie when they do makes me a little more open-minded, a little more tolerant, when my child or my partner lies.
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Until we question our stressful thoughts, we remain victims of the images in our head.
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It’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
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If people are living their lives for security and comfort and pleasure, then mind’s every waking moment will be plotting those things. That’s how it stays identified – as a body, as a you.
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Until we know that death is equal to life, we live in fear.
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The world is what you believe it to be, and it changes as you change.
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To me, health is a balanced mind. A balanced mind knows how to get enough rest, how to eat properly, how to exercise. I have come out as just a balanced human being, and I don’t know anything finer than that.
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For me, everything is God. Everything and everyone. So it was just, God needs me now, now, now.
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To understand our own thinking is to understand all thinking.
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To argue with reality is to argue with God.
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That’s what every uncomfortable feeling is for-that’s what pain is for, what money is for, what everything in the world is for: your self-realization.
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Every stressful thought is a variation on a single theme: This shouldn’t be happening. I shouldn’t be having this experience. God is unjust. Life isn’t fair.
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I can’t love you as you have been or will be. I can only love you as you are.
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