Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal while blaming our misery on the person who started the fire.
BILL CRAWFORDHolding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal while blaming our misery on the person who started the fire.
BILL CRAWFORDThe act of giving is simply a behavior, and the gift merely a symbol. It is the energy behind both that will determine their impact on our lives.
BILL CRAWFORDWe limit our success when we mistake the limits of our perception for reality.
BILL CRAWFORDA meaningful life is composed of a series of meaningful moments. If this is what we want, then the ability to infuse each moment with meaning would seem to be a skill worth practicing.
BILL CRAWFORDTo understand ourself, we must understand our “selves,” or the parts of us that motivate our thoughts, decisions, and behaviors.
BILL CRAWFORDSerenity is not just an escape, but a precursor to acceptance, courage, wisdom, and change.
BILL CRAWFORDImages of resentment and revenge only have us spending the precious moments of our lives imagining the ‘other’ as both dangerous and important!
BILL CRAWFORDNever define people or situations in terms of their effect on you, unless you want to give them the power to make you feel that way.
BILL CRAWFORDMistakes are just ‘mis-takes,’ or an action that we took that missed.
BILL CRAWFORDChange isn’t always easy, but with purposeful practice, any old habit can be replaced with a way of being we would recommend to those we love.
BILL CRAWFORDWhen faced with conflicting thoughts and emotions, we must decide what to trust, what we fear, or what we know. What’s important is that this decision be made by the knowledgeable versus the anxious part of who we are.
BILL CRAWFORDOne key to successful relationships is learning to say “no” without guilt, so that you can say “yes” without resentment.
BILL CRAWFORDOne key to creating a meaningful life, is choosing what we want to feel, and for how long.
BILL CRAWFORDTo find the true cause of how you think and feel, find the ‘sponsoring thought’ that created the interpretation that created your experience of life.
BILL CRAWFORDThere are two ways to look at most problems… ‘Oh Crap!’ or, ‘Good Information!,’ and our choice will give us good information on how to deal with problems in the future.
BILL CRAWFORDSelfish is caring for ourselves at others’ expense … Self-care is taking care of ourselves so that we can be there for others.
BILL CRAWFORD