I knew one thing. I did not want to be a mommy like mommy.
BETTY FRIEDANThe feminist revolution had to be fought because women quite simply were stopped at a state of evolution far short of their human capacity.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: ‘I want something more than my husband and my children and my home.’
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
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Advice? I don’t offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
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I won a really big fellowship to go straight on to get my Ph.D. And I went through agonies of indecision, and then I decided not to accept it. I just decided I didn’t want to be an academic.
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The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves?
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…women who ‘adjust’ as housewives, who grow up wanting to be ‘just a housewife,’ are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps…they ate suffering a slow death of mind and spirit.
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Why the increasing emphasis by professional age experts and the media on – and public acceptance of – the nursing home as the locus of age when, in fact, more than ninety percent of those over sixty-five continue to live in the community?
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The problem that has no name-which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities-is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease.
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You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
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I love newspapers. I’ve worked on newspapers, all my life. I’ve always loved it.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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It is easier to live through someone else than to become complete yourself.
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I understood somehow my mother’s frustration. And that it was no good not only for her, but for her children or her husband, that she didn’t have a real use of her ability.
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It is frightening when a woman finally realizes that there is no answer to the question ‘who am I’ except the voice inside herself.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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Aging is not “lost youth” but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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life lived only for oneself does not truly satisfy men or women. There is a hunger in Americans today for larger purposes beyond the self. That is the reason for the religious revival and the new resonance of ‘family.
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American women were frustrated in just the role of housewife – but they also managed to enlarge it. And they weren’t just housewives, they were community leaders.
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To protest free speech in the name of protecting women is dangerous and wrong.
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[Feminist:] One who believes in the liberation of that which has been suppressed as female in a man.
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No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.
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Just as darkness is sometimes defined as the absence of light, so age is defined as the absence of youth.
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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Diversity has got to be a part of modern feminism, and I think that my feminism is stronger because its an inclusive thing. I won’t be backed into a corner that polarizes me against other women. And I wished they wouldn’t be either.
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