There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
BETTY FRIEDANWe can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: ‘I want something more than my husband and my children and my home.’
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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The situation of women and men is not comparable to worker-boss or black and white.
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A girl should not expect special privileges because of her sex, but neither should she “adjust” to prejudice and discrimination.
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No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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I never set out to write a book to change women’s lives, to change history. It’s like, ‘Who, me?’ Yes, me. I did it. And I’m not that different from other women. Maybe my power and glory was that I could speak my truth as a woman and it was the truth of every woman.
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I have discovered that there is a crucial difference between society’s image of old people and ‘us’ as we know and feel ourselves to be.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
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Advice? I don’t offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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…women who ‘adjust’ as housewives, who grow up wanting to be ‘just a housewife,’ are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps…they ate suffering a slow death of mind and spirit.
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Today the problem that has no name is how to juggle work, love, home and children.
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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We broke through the feminine mystique and women who were wives, mothers and housewives began to find themselves as people. That didn’t mean they stopped, or had to stop, being mothers, wives or even liking their homes.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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I’m my age and I feel glorious.
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You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
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I can’t point to any major episodes of sexual discrimination in my early life. But I was so aware of the crime, the shame that there was no use of my mother’s ability and energy.
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When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women’s passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
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Women, because they are not generally the principal breadwinners, can be perhaps most useful as the trail blazers, working along the bypaths, doing the unusual job that men cannot afford to gamble on.
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Diversity has got to be a part of modern feminism, and I think that my feminism is stronger because its an inclusive thing. I won’t be backed into a corner that polarizes me against other women. And I wished they wouldn’t be either.
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He’s a male chauvinistic piglet.
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Dominance is a burden. Most men who are honest will admit that.
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Why the increasing emphasis by professional age experts and the media on – and public acceptance of – the nursing home as the locus of age when, in fact, more than ninety percent of those over sixty-five continue to live in the community?
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I love newspapers. I’ve worked on newspapers, all my life. I’ve always loved it.
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