When I was in high school, even in college, I didn’t have any real image of a career woman or a professional woman.
BETTY FRIEDANDominance is a burden. Most men who are honest will admit that.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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The situation of women and men is not comparable to worker-boss or black and white.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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The feminists had destroyed the old image of woman, but they could not erase the hostility, the prejudice, the discrimination that still remained.
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Some people think I’m saying, ‘Women of the world unite — you have nothing to lose but your men. It’s not true. You have nothing to lose but your vacuum cleaners.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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It is perhaps beside the point to remark that bowling alleys and supermarkets have nursery facilities, while schools and colleges and scientific laboratories and government offices do not.
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Today the problem that has no name is how to juggle work, love, home and children.
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Just as darkness is sometimes defined as the absence of light, so age is defined as the absence of youth.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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The feminist revolution had to be fought because women quite simply were stopped at a state of evolution far short of their human capacity.
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Each woman is made to feel it is her own cross to bear if she can’t be the perfect clone of the male superman and the perfect clone of the feminine mystique.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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We broke through the feminine mystique and women who were wives, mothers and housewives began to find themselves as people. That didn’t mean they stopped, or had to stop, being mothers, wives or even liking their homes.
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There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
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We need to see men and women as equal partners, but its hard to think of movies that do that. When I talk to people, they think of movies of forty-five years ago! Hepburn and Tracy!
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Women, because they are not generally the principal breadwinners, can be perhaps most useful as the trail blazers, working along the bypaths, doing the unusual job that men cannot afford to gamble on.
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves? Who knows what women’s intelligence will contribute when it can be nourished without denying love?
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Men weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill.
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The problem that has no name-which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities-is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease.
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Why the increasing emphasis by professional age experts and the media on – and public acceptance of – the nursing home as the locus of age when, in fact, more than ninety percent of those over sixty-five continue to live in the community?
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Getting older is an adventure, not a problem.
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I won a really big fellowship to go straight on to get my Ph.D. And I went through agonies of indecision, and then I decided not to accept it. I just decided I didn’t want to be an academic.
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I’m my age and I feel glorious.
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I can’t point to any major episodes of sexual discrimination in my early life. But I was so aware of the crime, the shame that there was no use of my mother’s ability and energy.
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[Feminist:] One who believes in the liberation of that which has been suppressed as female in a man.
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Advice? I don’t offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
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