The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
BETTY FRIEDANWe need a new political movement of women and men toward a new society.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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Getting older is an adventure, not a problem.
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I love newspapers. I’ve worked on newspapers, all my life. I’ve always loved it.
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The problem that has no name-which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities-is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease.
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We need a new political movement of women and men toward a new society.
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Most of the people in the workforce today will spend some years when they also have children and family responsibilities.
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I understood somehow my mother’s frustration. And that it was no good not only for her, but for her children or her husband, that she didn’t have a real use of her ability.
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When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.
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You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
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Aging will create the music of the coming century.
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Why the increasing emphasis by professional age experts and the media on – and public acceptance of – the nursing home as the locus of age when, in fact, more than ninety percent of those over sixty-five continue to live in the community?
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There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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Instead of fulfilling the promise of infinite orgasmic bliss, sex in the America of the feminine mystique is becoming a strangely joyless national compulsion, if not a contemptuous mockery.
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If you were very bright and you became head of a department, as I did, of the psychology department, you were encouraged to go on to graduate work. But as a women you didn’t even think about discrimination.
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Each woman is made to feel it is her own cross to bear if she can’t be the perfect clone of the male superman and the perfect clone of the feminine mystique.
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While I had been, I guess, quite brilliant, academically, in my college years, I also had been editor of the paper, and I loved that. And, that was a much more active thing. And I missed it when I was doing graduate work.
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When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women’s passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
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The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
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A woman is handicapped by her sex, and handicaps society, either by slavishly copying the pattern of man’s advance in the professions, or by refusing to compete with man at all.
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life lived only for oneself does not truly satisfy men or women. There is a hunger in Americans today for larger purposes beyond the self. That is the reason for the religious revival and the new resonance of ‘family.
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Aging is not “lost youth” but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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When I was in high school, even in college, I didn’t have any real image of a career woman or a professional woman.
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If women’s role in life is limited solely to housewife/mother, it clearly ends when she can no longer bear more children and the children she has borne leave home.
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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