The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
BETTY FRIEDANMost of the people in the workforce today will spend some years when they also have children and family responsibilities.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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The situation of women and men is not comparable to worker-boss or black and white.
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Women, because they are not generally the principal breadwinners, can be perhaps most useful as the trail blazers, working along the bypaths, doing the unusual job that men cannot afford to gamble on.
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I love newspapers. I’ve worked on newspapers, all my life. I’ve always loved it.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves?
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When I was in high school, even in college, I didn’t have any real image of a career woman or a professional woman.
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There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
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American women were frustrated in just the role of housewife – but they also managed to enlarge it. And they weren’t just housewives, they were community leaders.
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If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don’t blame the women’s movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based.
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Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
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The problem that has no name-which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities-is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease.
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I never set out to write a book to change women’s lives, to change history. It’s like, ‘Who, me?’ Yes, me. I did it. And I’m not that different from other women. Maybe my power and glory was that I could speak my truth as a woman and it was the truth of every woman.
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Today the problem that has no name is how to juggle work, love, home and children.
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[Feminist:] One who believes in the liberation of that which has been suppressed as female in a man.
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I understood somehow my mother’s frustration. And that it was no good not only for her, but for her children or her husband, that she didn’t have a real use of her ability.
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While I had been, I guess, quite brilliant, academically, in my college years, I also had been editor of the paper, and I loved that. And, that was a much more active thing. And I missed it when I was doing graduate work.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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I won a really big fellowship to go straight on to get my Ph.D. And I went through agonies of indecision, and then I decided not to accept it. I just decided I didn’t want to be an academic.
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Aging is not “lost youth” but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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Each woman is made to feel it is her own cross to bear if she can’t be the perfect clone of the male superman and the perfect clone of the feminine mystique.
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Dominance is a burden. Most men who are honest will admit that.
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Aging will create the music of the coming century.
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I can’t point to any major episodes of sexual discrimination in my early life. But I was so aware of the crime, the shame that there was no use of my mother’s ability and energy.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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To protest free speech in the name of protecting women is dangerous and wrong.
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