Ben Gibbard on feel
Ben Gibbard71 quotes“We always idealize the past because we don’t feel the painful stuff the way we used to.”
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The story of our band is that we were this relentless touring band in those early years. We were leaving day jobs and going off on the road and having fun and seeing the country for the first time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Bands who are in their early 20s today, they are living in their own time and they have a series of parameters they have to work around.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’ve covered Avril Lavigne. I like good pop songs, and I don’t think there should be any kind of preconceptions about where good pop songs come from.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I don’t want to be overly dramatic and say it’s the only thing that gets me up and keeps me going. But people in your life come and go.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I want so badly to believe that there is truth, that love is real. And I want life in every word to the extent that it’s absurd.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Liking interesting things doesn’t make you interesting.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’m a war of head versus heart, it’s always this way. My head is weak, my heart always speaks, before I know what it will say.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard When I listen to Airplanes record, it takes me back. I remember a lot of my thought processes when I was 20 or 21, writing those songs and recording that record.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard If there is one thing I think I have accomplished, it’s that I always thought of myself as a very literal songwriter, and as I look at some of those older records.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’ve always had a soft spot for Phil Collins. He’s a great vocalist.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Now that we have the resources, we’re like, “Oh wow, a nice studio is pretty nice! They do have nice outboards here. It’s actually a pretty good place.” It’s funny how much changes so quickly.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I can remember how I sang – a little more nasal-y back then. Listening to those old recordings is like seeing a photograph of yourself from 10 years ago. You’re wearing what you thought looked cool at the time. You had your hair styled the particular way you thought looked cool.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I think sometimes a narrative can come out of a single word.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I can remember sitting up in guitarist Chris Walla’s bedroom and for the first time in my life having this realization like, “Maybe I can do this. Maybe I can make music that in some capacity people will enjoy and come see me play.”
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard We never sit down before we start making a record and talk about this new sonic palette that we are going to try to explore. We always let the record kind of reveal itself to us over time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard We had friends who had a hit single on the radio and sold 500,000 records, and then they couldn’t get arrested a year later.
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Lang LeavLang Leav Respect your body, it’s a home to be thankful for.
SargamSargam My heart holds your name like it’s the only thing it knows.
N.M SanchezN.M Sanchez Listening and empathizing will enable you to look past fake smiles and dive deeper into the pain in their eyes.
Ankur SinghAnkur Singh I heard the universe whisper “take care of her”
Karla GaleanaKarla Galeana Respect me, not because I respect you, but because I deserve your respect.
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It makes you feel cheap and guilty when you didn’t do a thing in the world to kindle the dull burn in your veins or the sting in your eyes.
Adam YoungAdam Young Like you’d feel if you have a cold, so I didn’t really think it was anything.
Adam YauchAdam Yauch Port Blue’ is my attempt at re-creating the music I want to hear and the emotions I want to feel.”
Adam YoungAdam Young Am I about to feel really, really stupid?
Adam SavageAdam Savage It makes you feel really comfortable when someone is like, I’m not going to touch what you’re doing.
Adam FaulknerAdam Faulkner You aren’t really writing about what you did; you’re writing about how you feel.
Adam DuritzAdam Duritz You probably will one day know what this kind of guilt and shame feels like. And when that time comes, I hope you have the strength…to take advantage of the fire and reshape your own sword.
Adam GidwitzAdam Gidwitz If you really like someone, it doesn’t matter what their mouth feels or tastes like.
Adam SelzerAdam Selzer
