Ben Gibbard on feelings
Ben Gibbard71 quotes“Our band is very polarizing. There are people who absolutely can’t stand us, and people who absolutely can’t live without us. I’d rather spark those kind of polar-opposite feelings than have people be indifferent.”
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There were two recording studios in Bellingham. One was really expensive, a “nice studio.” We were at the point where we were young and irreverent.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard As you go through your life, you make friendships, you break friendships, you have relationships. Music is the one thing I’ve always been able to rely on.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard A lot of the material is about the inevitable disappointment people feel as they move through life, and things don’t feel the way they expect. No experience will ever match up to the idealized version in your mind.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Around that same time I started running. I never saw myself as the kind of person who would become a runner. It seemed unfathomable to me that I would ever run three miles, let alone 26.2.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard And it came to me then that every plan is a tiny prayer to father time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard There are the people that are like, “I want it to sound like the last one.” You can’t please everybody all the time, but I think for the most part we tend to maintain a healthy level of self-reference to kind of make sure we continue to push things forward.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I just rediscovered my guitar.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard The story of our band is that we were this relentless touring band in those early years. We were leaving day jobs and going off on the road and having fun and seeing the country for the first time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Bands who are in their early 20s today, they are living in their own time and they have a series of parameters they have to work around.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’ve covered Avril Lavigne. I like good pop songs, and I don’t think there should be any kind of preconceptions about where good pop songs come from.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I don’t want to be overly dramatic and say it’s the only thing that gets me up and keeps me going. But people in your life come and go.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I want so badly to believe that there is truth, that love is real. And I want life in every word to the extent that it’s absurd.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Liking interesting things doesn’t make you interesting.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’m a war of head versus heart, it’s always this way. My head is weak, my heart always speaks, before I know what it will say.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard When I listen to Airplanes record, it takes me back. I remember a lot of my thought processes when I was 20 or 21, writing those songs and recording that record.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard If there is one thing I think I have accomplished, it’s that I always thought of myself as a very literal songwriter, and as I look at some of those older records.
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Someone rejected you does not mean you are not worthy. Maybe they can’t afford to be with you.
Jacklyn TysonJacklyn Tyson I will love you from afar it’s better this way because close up it hurts too much.
Melissa AndersonMelissa Anderson Maybe if you hold me tight, our love won’t be as shallow.
Mira R. AridiMira R. Aridi Sometimes a person is in peace & in the piece at the same time.
Jessica CollinsJessica Collins Between day and night there was a moment of silence.
Frode GaslandFrode Gasland But doesn’t it hurt to feel so much and pretend not to?
Brad NeatonBrad Neaton Admire your sweet way of glowing; your passionate way of flowing.
Ana SoulfulAna Soulful Darling, you are a warrior, for even though each day feels like a battle, you keep fighting and live on.
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I’ve been up, down, trying to get the feeling again. All around, trying to get the feeling again. The one that makes me shiver, made my knees start to quiver.
Barry ManilowBarry Manilow Shortly after the end of last season, I felt that I probably would not return for the 1999-2000 season. I also felt that I should take as much time as possible to sort through my feelings and make sure that my feelings were backed with conviction.
Barry SandersBarry Sanders It just means that if someone hates you, they still have feelings for you. If they really didn’t care about you, they’d just forget about you. They wouldn’t even waste the time hating you.
Barry LygaBarry Lyga The same feeling you get from succeeding is the same feeling I get from failing, now imagine what happens when I win.
Behdad SamiBehdad Sami One life to live, live it to the fullest. If you have doubts or your gut feeling says something, listen. Don’t waste time, time will waist u.
Behdad SamiBehdad Sami There is no feeling like coming home after danger.
Bear GryllsBear Grylls You exist without the feeling of existence.
B.K.S. IyengarB.K.S. Iyengar I do see a lot of the hard end of ecology, and my feeling is that we live on a super-exciting planet but a super-fragile one.
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