Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERYou never knew which split second might be the zigzag bolt dividing all that went before from the everything that comes next.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Many of us who aren’t farmers or gardeners still have some element of farm nostalgia in our family past, real or imagined: a secret longing for some connection to a life where a rooster crows in the yard.
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That was when we smelled the rain. It was so strong it seemed like more than just a smell. When we stretched out our hands we could practically feel it rising up from the ground. I don’t know how a person could ever describe that scent.
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Every life is different because you passed this way and touched history… Listen being dead is not worse than being alive. It is different though. You could say the view is larger.
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It occurs to her that there is one thing about people you can never understand well enough: how entirely inside themselves they are.
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When I want to take God at his word exactly, I take a peep out the window at His creation. Because that, darling, He makes fresh for us everyday.
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You know things are bad when a woman without any legs and who recently lost two of her own kids feels sorry for you.
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Our house is like an empty cigarette packet, lying around reminding you what’s not in it.
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A certain feeling comes from throwing your good life away, and it is one part rapture.
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Forgive me, O Heavenly Father, according to the multitude of Thy mercies. I have lusted in my heart to break a man’s skull and scatter the stench of his brains across several people’s back yards.
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You think you’re the foreigner here, and I’m the American, and I just look the other way while the President or somebody sends down this and that . . . to torture people with. But nobody asked my permission, okay? Sometimes I feel like I’m a foreigner, too.
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A dog can’t think that much about what he’s doing, he just does what feels right.
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No human eye had looked at this moth before; no one would see its friends. So much detail goes unnoticed in the world.
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I considered her my ally, because, like me, she was imperfect.
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For Lou Ann, life itself was a life-threatening enterprise.
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Cooking is 80 percent confidence, a skill best acquired starting from when the apron strings wrap around you twice.
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