Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERIt occurs to her that there is one thing about people you can never understand well enough: how entirely inside themselves they are.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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I could never work out whether we were to view religion as a life-insurance policy or a life sentence.
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Eaters must understand, how we eat determines how the world is used.
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The power is in the balance: we are our injuries, as much as we are our successes.
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My worst nightmare is being stuck somewhere with nothing to read.
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In a world as wrong as this one, all we can do is make things as right as we can.
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You never knew which split second might be the zigzag bolt dividing all that went before from the everything that comes next.
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I prefer to remain anomalous.
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Don’t try to make life a mathematics problem with yourself in the center and everything coming out equal. When you’re good, bad things can still happen. And if you’re bad, you can still be lucky.
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Even feigning surprise, pretending it was unexpected and saying a ritual thanks, is surely wiser than just expecting everything so carelessly.
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All of the promises of politicians, generals, madmen, and crusaders that war can create peace have yet to be borne out.
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The moth settled onto the curtain and sat still. It was an astonishing creature, with black and white wings patterned in geometric shapes, scarlet underwings, and a fat white body with black spots running down it like a snowman’s coal buttons.
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Forgive me, O Heavenly Father, according to the multitude of Thy mercies. I have lusted in my heart to break a man’s skull and scatter the stench of his brains across several people’s back yards.
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Households that have lost the soul of cooking from their routines may not know what they are missing: the song of a stir-fry sizzle, the small talk of clinking measuring spoons, the yeasty scent of rising dough, the painting of flavors onto a pizza before it slides into the oven.
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Anybody can get worked up, if they have the intention. It’s peacefulness that is hard to come by on purpose.
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I live in a rural part of Virginia surrounded by farms and farmers.
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She kept swimming out into life because she hadn’t yet found a rock to stand on.
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Feeling that morality has nothing to do with the way you use the resources of the world is an idea that can’t persist much longer. If it does, then we won’t.
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Wherever I am, let me never forget to distinguish want from need
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Parenting is something that happens mostly while you’re thinking of something else.
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I never think that anything I’m writing is bluntly political in any way. I’m not going for commentary.
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There was a roaring in my ears and I lost track of what they were saying. I believe it was the physical manifestation of unbearable grief.
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Life proceeds, it enrages. The untouched ones spend their luck without a thought, believing they deserve it.
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Libraries are the one American institution you shouldn’t rip off.
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A dog can’t think that much about what he’s doing, he just does what feels right.
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It’s the one thing we never quite get over: that we contain our own future.
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Every life is different because you passed this way and touched history… Listen being dead is not worse than being alive. It is different though. You could say the view is larger.
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