Memory is a complicated thing, a relative to truth, but not its twin.
BARBARA KINGSOLVEROur house is like an empty cigarette packet, lying around reminding you what’s not in it.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Once you start cooking, one thing leads to another. A new recipe is as exciting as a blind date. A new ingredient, heaven help me, is an intoxicating affair.
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Insomnia’s different,” I said. It was hard to explain this to people. “You know the light that comes on when you open the refrigerator door? Just imagine it stays on all the time, even after you close the door. That’s what it’s like in my head. The light stays on.
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Everything you’re sure is right can be wrong in another place.
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It’s a great freedom to give up on love, and get on with everything else.
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Anybody can get worked up, if they have the intention. It’s peacefulness that is hard to come by on purpose.
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I don’t bring expectations to any of my books. I don’t tell people what to do. I want to invite them in.
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The substance of grief is not imaginary. It’s as real as rope or the absence of air, and like both those things, it can kill.
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Now I’m starting to think he wasn’t supposed to be my whole life, he was just this doorway to me.
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We’re surrounded by mandates, and I believe that literature should be mandate-free. I feel very strongly about that.
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I learned to write by reading the kind of books I wished I’d written.
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If you never stepped on anybody’s toes, you never been for a walk.
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The most assiduous task of parenting is to divine the difference between boundaries and bondage.
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Many of us who aren’t farmers or gardeners still have some element of farm nostalgia in our family past, real or imagined: a secret longing for some connection to a life where a rooster crows in the yard.
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Some of us know how we came by our fortune and some of us don’t; but we wear it all the same
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No human eye had looked at this moth before; no one would see its friends. So much detail goes unnoticed in the world.
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It seems very safe to me to be surrounded by green growing things and water.
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Maybe life doesn’t get any better than this, or any worse, and what we get is just what we’re willing to find: small wonders, where they grow.
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Memories do not always soften with time; some grow edges like knives.
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Even feigning surprise, pretending it was unexpected and saying a ritual thanks, is surely wiser than just expecting everything so carelessly.
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Our house is like an empty cigarette packet, lying around reminding you what’s not in it.
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You think you’re the foreigner here, and I’m the American, and I just look the other way while the President or somebody sends down this and that . . . to torture people with. But nobody asked my permission, okay? Sometimes I feel like I’m a foreigner, too.
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It occurs to her that there is one thing about people you can never understand well enough: how entirely inside themselves they are.
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Alice wonders if other women in the middle of the night have begun to resent their Formica.
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The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof.
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Close the door. Write with no one looking over your shoulder. Don’t try to figure out what other people want to hear from you; figure out what you have to say. It’s the one and only thing you have to offer.
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A flower is a plant’s way of making love.
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