The most important part of a story is the piece of it you don’t know.
BARBARA KINGSOLVEREmpathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Why is it that only girls stand on the sides of their feet? As if they’re afraid to plant themselves?
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The artist deals with what cannot be said in words. The novelist says in words what cannot be said in words.
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Back then I was still appalled that God would set down his barefoot boy and girl dollies into an Eden where, presumably, He had just turned loose elephantiasis and microes that eat the human cornea. Now I understand, God is not just rooting fo the dollies.
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Value is not made of money, but a tender balance of expectation and longing.
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But kids don’t stay with you if you do it right. It’s the one job where, the better you are, the more surely you won’t be needed in the long run.
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Alice wonders if other women in the middle of the night have begun to resent their Formica.
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It’s a great freedom to give up on love, and get on with everything else.
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I’m of a fearsome mind to throw my arms around every living librarian who crosses my path, on behalf of the souls they never knew they saved.
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People love to read about sins and errors, but not their own.
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I learned to write by reading the kind of books I wished I’d written.
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Even feigning surprise, pretending it was unexpected and saying a ritual thanks, is surely wiser than just expecting everything so carelessly.
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Libraries are the one American institution you shouldn’t rip off.
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Our childhood had passed over into history overnight. The transition was unnoticed by anyone but ourselves.
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For Lou Ann, life itself was a life-threatening enterprise.
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If we can’t, as artists, improve on real life, we should put down our pencils and go bake bread.
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The happiest people are the ones with the most community.
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Last time I talked to her she didn’t sound like herself. She’s depressed. It’s awful what happens when people run out of money. They start thinking they’re no good.
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Some of us know how we came by our fortune and some of us don’t; but we wear it all the same
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… Urban friends ask me how I can stand living here, ‘so far from everything?’ When I hear this question over the phone, I’m usually looking out the window at a forest, a running creek, and a vegetable garden, thinking: Define everything.
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She is inhumanly alone. And then, all at once, she isn’t.
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Every time I step onto an airplane, I turn to the right and take a good, hard stare into the maw of the engine. I don’t know what I’m looking for. I just do it.
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I personally am inclined to approach [housework] the way governments treat dissent: ignore it until it revolts.
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If it’s important, your heart remembers.
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Wars and elections are both too big and too small to matter in the long run. The daily work – that goes on, it adds up.
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Sadness is more or less like a head cold – with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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I never think that anything I’m writing is bluntly political in any way. I’m not going for commentary.
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