Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
ALAIN DE BOTTONYou need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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