There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONYou need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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