Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
ALAIN DE BOTTONYou need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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