I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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