In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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