A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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