There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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