Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONCuriosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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