The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
ALAIN DE BOTTONCuriosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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