We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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