It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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