We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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