…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMan seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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