The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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