Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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