We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
ALAIN DE BOTTONReputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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