There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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