Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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