Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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