Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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