It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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