In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMy writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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