The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMy writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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