Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMy writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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