So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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