Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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