Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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