We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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