Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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