The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnly as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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