The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnly as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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