The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
ALAIN DE BOTTONTaking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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