As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTaking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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