The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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