We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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