True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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