Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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