We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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