Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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