People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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