There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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