For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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